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@nothingtoknow Maybe start with not expecting too much consistency. If he’s incapable of that, come to an agreement that if he makes a promise he has to stick to it but if he only feels he can give 1 or 2 visits a year…then stick to that and make it quality time. This is very fresh still but if...

@katrina2017 This. This is what I wish my mum would’ve done. My dad took many years to mature and he wasn’t capable of consistency or reliability. But we always had fun when we saw him. My mum just stopped him seeing us altogether.

@nothingtoknow I would’ve still liked to have seen my dad even if it was just a few times a year. If I was in yr shoes I’d probably say your dad does love you very much but he just doesn’t know how to do be a good daddy. As they get older you can explain selfishness etc and how he does love them...