@om4e My mother would fill a stocking for me every year, as well as give me one present to open on Christmas Eve - this was largely due to the fact our other families were over getting all their gifts and they didn’t want me to feel left out.
@holypath As if having another child would ever fill the void and null the grievances of a lossed child. People who use that to make OAD people regret their choices/change their mind are grasping at straws.