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@flyerbo Yes - honestly a really great marriage so far, and I’m not a “fairytale relationship” type person. We’ve moved several countries together, worked together, and have been solid throughout. In January it felt like he started to detach from me and the family, and I put it down to pressure...

@mizzdy Thank you - I really appreciate that. The knee jerk reaction to up and leave isn’t always the right one, and maybe staying isn’t either. It’s definitely not black and white and it’s going to take a lot of thinking through. Therapists for each of us and together is our number 1 priority...

@taryn12 That’s a really great point.

@rogueebear Oh you’ve hit the nail on the head in several ways here. From my kids perspective, I can’t even imagine a life without him. Their whole world would change. We live in a different country to all of my family and if I leave, I’d likely go back home, which is a big upheaval for my...

@tinacomb I haven’t gone into much detail on other posts mostly coz I’ve been processing and crying all day but this is a really great comment. I only want to stay in this if it’s right for me, and if it’s not.. the kids will have two happy separate parents.

@sicarii Hard agree. Thank you.

@romeishome This is very helpful. Thank you for your honesty. I’m so glad you’re together and happy.

@peterme93 Thank you. I really really appreciate this, probably more than you know.

@amberemilee That’s exactly it, him hiding the truth is making it worse now, I don’t think he can see that coz he’s trying to save face.

@amberemilee Thank you for replying. He didn’t tell me until I confronted him - and I think he’s not been honest about the depth of it, based off the messages I’ve seen, but he wouldn’t have told me as much as I’d seen willingly, I would guess. I know he’s embarrassed for me to know...

@laura888 Thank you so so much for this comment. Thank you. I needed to know it can work if we choose to work at it. I’m just in disbelief right now that he could come home and look at our beautiful kids faces then go off and do those things.

@elle_vee Thank you for the recommendation, appreciate it. And your words. You’re right.

@ramonguitar This is the huge question, will the trust ever come back or will I be able to fully ever accept what he says. Right now I don’t know. I feel so stupid.

@adviceplease Thank you for this. It’s simultaneously my worst outcome and my best outcome.,

@alipius12 Honestly may slash his tires, as this is apparently where some of the romance happened. Just need a good knife, in all seriousness.

@marching4christ Thank you for this. I appreciate hearing this, like.. even if I leave, I can come out better off mentally. I’m so sorry this happened to you too.

@sayge Thank you!

@jamesstewart89 You’ve summed up so many of my thoughts.

@taryn12 That’s a great way to position it.

Hi Moms. I’ve just found out my husband of nearly 7 years has had an affair last a few months. I’m horrifically minimising it here for the sake of my sanity, but I’m wondering there is some stories out there of other moms who have been cheated on who have kept the family together? Or, the flip...