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@blanca If you're both incapable of having a civil disagreement and things devolve into a screaming match, yeah. But NEVER arguing in front of your kids, never letting them see confrontation and then resolution of these arguments followed by reconciliation... that led me and my ex to believe...

@alexsad Here are two articles with references to earlier studies: what happens to children when parents fight arguing in front of your kids I appreciate that you want to read some reliable articles and can admit that it's difficult to discern which ones are real and fake. Generally choosing...

@alexsad I would recommend to you an app called "in love while parenting." It's free, an educational tool developed by psychologists to help parents learn manage their own interpersonal conflicts with each other and with their kids. It includes discussion on why we need to model good...

@alexsad The way you phrased things to your 10yo may indeed make him think it's his fault you guys fight. While the stress of kids may be indeed a contributor, it's YOUR REACTION to that stress that YOU need to manage. While yes it would help if the kids were more cooperative, your mental...