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    Tipping Daycare Teachers

    @johnsubira I gave the daycare director and 3 teachers each $50 gift cards with thank you notes. I feel like that’s on the high end maybe, but we are also leaving that school for a different one so I wanted to show my appreciation. It’s a lot of money for me, but I’m a teacher too, and I know...
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    My OBGYN laughed at me when I said I was OAD

    @arseniusthesilent Mine (who has 2 kids) said, “that’s great! When are you going to schedule a vasectomy?”
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    Should I get bloodwork done to find out the gender Y or N?

    @asupersquirrel I did a NIPS tests! My insurance covered it. I’m in the US, and I was under the impression that is the norm to have this testing for genetic abnormalities (every pregnant person I’ve ever met as an adult has had it done except one). In my opinion the test gives essential...
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    Struggling to Make a Decision

    @winddancersong I have a really negative perspective on breastfeeding due to my own negative experience, so take this with a grain of salt if you like. Breastfeeding is the biggest regret of my entire life. Every minute was awful for me, despite my best efforts and getting tons of medical...
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    Stop f*cking telling me I’ll change my mind

    @whatgoeshere He literally had the initial consultation yesterday! The doctor asked him if he’s sure (took one “yes” for an answer), gave him the run-down on the procedure, and said he can have it pretty much any time. He scheduled it for 2 1/2 weeks from now because he’s got a few days off work...
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    Stop f*cking telling me I’ll change my mind

    @i_love_you_lots My response to the pushback has been that we are getting a vasectomy. Now the vasectomy is 2 weeks away (daughter is 10 months) and I can’t wait to respond that we already had one. My husband would prefer everyone and their mom not to picture his vas deferens being snipped...
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