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    Are my concerns not worth choosing not to have another, and will I regret it?

    @yayas I found it useful as a way to visualize what my ideal family looks like in my heart without getting so clouded by my emotions at the moment. It doesn’t even have to be a holiday, it could just be some random future Wednesday thinking about who is at the table.
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    Are my concerns not worth choosing not to have another, and will I regret it?

    @jello123 I agree with everyone else who said your daughter was exceptionally easy as a newborn. My son was a hard newborn in some ways: colic screaming for many weeks, colicky eating for months, but thankfully a good sleeper. Having another child opens up your life to the possibility that it...
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    Is there a significant difference between a 3-3.5 vs. 3.5-4 year age gap?

    @reynaldo I’m guessing not. With that small amount of variation any difference caused by age may be obscured by differences in personalities. I’d say the reason to aim for a smaller gap is because it’s impossible to predict how long it’ll take to get (and stay) pregnant. We wanted around a 3-3.5...
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