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@eyore Well at least it worked out for ya'll! Thank you for sharing your experience (and your honesty) :)

@eyore I appreciate the advice to relax. And I understand I have no power over the decisions any other person makes. What I am seeking advice on though is if this is a good idea or not. Is this something that will lay a good foundation for my kids' relationship with their father and his...

@dave1979 You make me seem way more nobler than I really am- I need more me time which is a big reason why I'm considering allowing this. 48 hours once a month is not enough! Although I do also wish for us all to move on with our lives smoothly which is why I don't want to rush this big...

@dave1979 How long they've been in a relationship- she was the other woman in an affair that started almost 2 years ago. When we initially separated my youngest was still ebf so I insisted all of his visits were out here so that I could be near to breastfeed. But ever since she turned 1 that's...

@faithhopelove13 Thank you for the advice! I really do want them to spend more time with their Dad but in a way where I am not setting them or us up for any further strife down the line

Tl;dr is basically the title. The details: Kids are 4 & 18mos. My ex and I have been separated for a little over a year. He lives a 6 hour drive away. His girlfriend lives about an hour away from where the kids and I live. He has never had the kids out to stay at his place; he always comes...