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    No one takes birth trauma and current financial state seriously

    @marysmith89 Right now baby is waking up 4 times a night. I am with you - I don’t know that I can do this “not sleeping” thing again. It’s awful.
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    No one takes birth trauma and current financial state seriously

    @katrina2017 Girl, yes. I bought a fancier breast pump than insurance gave me. I bought nipple shields, ate lactation cookies, spent hours watching YouTube videos of women giving breastfeeding advice. Cried every night. Formula wasn’t what I envisioned for us, but for his sake I regret I...
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    No one takes birth trauma and current financial state seriously

    @mark_v Omg, yes. Thank you for sharing. Every time I left the house with him, I’d get so many comments on how small he was. When you’re already carrying so much guilt as the person who carried them (misplaced guilt - we can’t control pre-e) it makes it so much worse. I dreaded leaving my house...
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    No one takes birth trauma and current financial state seriously

    @ababwaalijaz I was also super low risk. No family history, I’m not overweight, my normal BP is always 120/70. Just bad luck! It’s why I have trust issues with all of the things I could do just to reduce risk. I just don’t want to gamble on it again. PPA is a trip. No thank you. Not again.
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    No one takes birth trauma and current financial state seriously

    @ababwaalijaz This is where I’m at. I’ve been told by my OB that my risk of getting pre-e again is there, but that taking aspirin reduces it and so does the fact it didn’t develop until 37 weeks in this pregnancy. But I really, really don’t think I am willing to put me and another baby through it.
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    No one takes birth trauma and current financial state seriously

    My son is 5.5 months old. He’s my absolute world and I’m so happy. But if you take a look at my post history, it was nothing like that a few months ago. My pregnancy was good until it wasn’t - induced for pre-e. Baby was skinny, small and needed respiratory assistance at birth, born completely...
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    Check out this thread to read how difficult 1 to 2 really is

    @liilas As an aside, why is this allowed to be discussed? Reproduction is not small-talk. For all anyone knows, people don’t have children or more children because of a medical condition or they’ve had losses. I find it incredibly weird to tell people so nonchalantly to add a human being to...
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