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    OAD by choice - when did you/your S.O. get a vasectomy?

    @jenny777 No vasectomy yet- my husband is making his appointment ‘soon’ lol We decided to be OAD when my son turned 4. He’s 4.5 now, so we are now looking into the more permanent vasectomy.
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    Are you OAD because you're scared of childbirth? C-sec to VBAC

    @hirokoegan I can’t imagine the fear of feeling the blood moving. My son was also born via unplanned (almost) emergency c-section. Have you gone to therapy? I didn’t realize the level of my birth trauma until I started therapy (technically for other reasons, but all of it is my life). I waited...
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    I’m an idiot and MatLeave in this country sucks

    @ray34iyf I wish my right leaning family would have their eyes finally open to the struggle. It was more like my mom seemed jealous and mad that I took as much time as I did while acting like a martyr for her miserable US maternity leave in the 1980s. I’m like just bc you survived doesn’t mean...
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