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@joncates What's the right reason to have kids?

@utookmyname He probably will go straight to preschool. I don't know a lot of people with medium age gap (3-4 years) so I don't really know the dynamic. My sister is only 21 months older and she was extremely controlling, so idk if it ever works out exactly as planned.

@roseen Having social activities back will make a big difference, for sure. But I'm also thinking long-term family happiness. I just don't know if knee-jerk "I want a baby" is a good enough answer.

@yadav123 If you're completely satisfied with your family of 3, I think you're one and done. Me, I still have that nagging desire for a second AND I'm worried about my first. But the worry, as some are explaining, is unfounded.

@jazzyd777 It is really a question of whether a baby would add enjoyment or stress. At first, life would be harder, but I'm trying to imagine whether adding a child will realistically add joy long-term. I just can't imagine being in my son's situation - having virtually no family my age.

My husband (28) and I (26) have one beautiful 2.5 y.o. boy. I'm considering having another. My husband says he will go with my decision, but is happy with just one. My big predicament is whether my son will be happy without other children around. He has no cousins and will not for many years...