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    One and done because my partner will never carry the same mental and physical load when it comes to taking care of this child

    @kaff23 Big time. I say over and over to my husband, in-laws my son will not be able to have a functional relationship, or even be a decent roommate, if he isn’t capable of cleaning, cooking and taking care of himself.
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    My OBGYN laughed at me when I said I was OAD

    @katrina2017 I was very much the same. Originally childfree but realized one could be nice and knew even before I was pregnant I was only doing this once. 15 months on, I’m now fantasizing daily about getting my tubes tied. I’ve never even felt a slight twitch of wanting more — idk who these...
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    One and done because my partner will never carry the same mental and physical load when it comes to taking care of this child

    @virgintown I love happy endings. Do you mind disclosing what your ex’s reaction to you leaving and did he ever set up in any material way?
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    One and done because my partner will never carry the same mental and physical load when it comes to taking care of this child

    @unseenunknown This right here is one of my biggest factors in being OAD. Second right behind my first of ‘don’t desire another child’.
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    Unsure About Second Baby due to Birth Trauma

    @differentviews I have a 13 month old - I developed very late onset pre eclampsia that I was induced quickly into labor around week 40. It then developed to post partum eclmapsia and landed me in the hospital for a week..I was always ‘one and done’ before even getting pregnant but nothing...
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    Genuinely curious - why do people choose to keep having kids despite health risks?

    @writergirlrs Almost exact same pre-e and post-eclampsia conditions as you on my delivery, plus the week stay in the hospital. Horrifying. Anxiety disorder feels like it re-wired my brain. How anyone who survived pre eclampsia and those who still choose to become pregnant again is so beyond me...
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