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@vescd Trying to keep everyone happy makes no one happy. If you're choosing to tolerate maladaptive overstepping from your girlfriend, it's a way of choosing that over your son's happiness. You sound like you're afraid of conflict and a people-pleaser, and it sounds like your girlfriend is...

@vescd No I know, I get it, it just was a strange response, it seemed like you were saying that since you're together all the time now, that's the reason you can trust her. Thanks for clarifying.

@vescd Still... that's not a great method of instilling trust, just having her in your sight at all times to confirm she's not doing anything.

@vescd And I see from your other post that you've suspected her of cheating, too. You should be with someone who doesn't make you walk on eggshells 😧 I hope you're seriously considering setting some strong boundaries with her.

@vescd It sounds like this is a relationship where you're making a lot of compromises you shouldn't be making. If you're considering making her his stepmother, she'd better be open to therapy. What's not to believe in? I think she sounds self-centered, thinking about how Disney will affect her...