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    But my husband’s family name will die if we don’t have a boy!

    @laura100 Ask him where are George Washington’s and Ben Franklins descendants that continued the name. lol Every last name “ends” at some point. This isn’t the 1500’s where you have to leave lands and castles to a male heir.
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    I really don’t know how people cope with even one baby

    @jesusmypeace I’m sorry to hear it’s been a rough first year. Hopefully things start getting easier soon. Every kid is different. Not saying this to be rude or anything but we are thriving with one. Sure the first few months were really hard but after that my son started sleeping through the...
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    How do you not get hung up on what other babies are able to do?

    @asalia207 Just realize it’s not a race. If one kid crawls at 8 months and your kid at 11 months who gives a crap? It’s not like a future employer is going to ask “So when did you start crawling as if it’s 8 months or earlier we can’t hire you”.
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    Check out this thread to read how difficult 1 to 2 really is

    @ashiedu Sorry to hear that, hope you all feel better soon. Yeah the whole sickness issue is another reason for me wanting to be one and done. With two kids it's twice the sickness and siblings can spread illnesses back and forth. One finally get's healthy and then the next one get's sick...
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    Check out this thread to read how difficult 1 to 2 really is

    I think some of the most eye opening comments in that thread are the dads talking about the toll a second kid took on their marriage. Some of the marriages became worse and others ended in divorce. I can see how that can happen as there's stressful moments with 1 kid let alone two. If my wife...
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    Check out this thread to read how difficult 1 to 2 really is

    @liilas This 100%. Also sorry to hear that about your friends.
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    Check out this thread to read how difficult 1 to 2 really is

    I posted this a while back in the /daddit sub. The responses were eye opening about just how hard going from 1 to 2 really is. Multiple dads said the change is exponentially more difficult and more then 2x as hard. Every once in a while I read the responses again and think “yeah, I can’t do 2”...
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