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@flintle I’m trying not to I swear lol

@flintle She’s not in school. And she says she only works part time because it take time away from her daughter It’s a bit more than casual me n her daughter have a bond

@kellyomara I respect her and everything she does.. she just wants to throw it in my face n then tell me I need to do more for her gain

@katrina2017 I agree I don’t think it’s a bad thing at all.. but to then throw in my face that she doesn’t need a man but tells me I need to do more in order to support her, sorry but yeah I see a bit of delusion in that

@tamraho Lol thanks dick lol

@ecowolf True.. I never said that was an issue. I’m saying that she shouldn’t feel as if I should come in and do everything for her so she can get by scotch free. There should b some kind of shared Financial responsibilities. Cuz truth of the matter is that if I took on all the responsibility...

@ecowolf I have the same thoughts in mind.. but I’m not in a relationship with her to save her from her circumstances. I will sure help her I’ll pitch in but I’m not finna take on all her responsibilities on my self she won’t have any No on marriage N slightly about kids, she doesn’t want...

@ecowolf Lol we have talked about n she says that as a man I should pay for everything when it comes to living cost n she shouldn’t have to pay for anything besides her child’s needs But she’s unable to do that on her own but she wants me to do it How does that not build dependence on me ? Cuz...

@rbh She most definitely is lucky but it feels like she trying to transfer their supportiveness over to me n I should b supportive (which I should) but it sounds like she wants to solely depend on me

@mn_of_stl I’ve tried just letting it go n not bringing it up then boom she does. That doesn’t work. Talking it through “nicely” trying to avoid hurting her feelings. Tried that. It’s almost like too soft of a approach n she shoots it down n will hang up on me or stone wall. Tried aggressive...

@mn_of_stl Nah I’m really trying to understand the opposition I really am but I just don’t I see no rationality to it. As far as I have heard, it’s a bunch of the same stuff my girlfriend says that leads to circles, with if this than that->well if that then this->repeat I’ve also been told I...

@sacm Omg thank u ! Lol so I’m not being crazy or unreasonable for thinking this way

@humbleservant46 Once again you clinging to hard to that 1 single point take a look at the larger picture

@humbleservant46 You got too hung up on the specific example.. look at the bigger picture Being able to cook for ones self is independence instead of needing a already prepped meal in a TV dinner or can of soup I can get the ingredients to make the things in the can of soup or TV dinner that...

@katrina2017 Nah she means financially atleast that’s what I’m hearing from her

@tsgaines Oh god so u don’t think I’m a dick or crazy or an asshole for what I’m saying I feel like she gaslighting me in a way to question my self and opinions

@thunderinglegion1 Well I personally feel as if I am encouraging her based on what she has told me her goals are but it seems like she is working against herself I tell her she can in a sense of like I believe if she wanted to make something happen to improve her situation that she can do it...

@thunderinglegion1 Hmmmm ig you could look at it that way but I’d respond if I’m technically trying to change her I’m atleast trying to change her for the betterment of herself n not for my gain But when is trying to get me to change it seems like she’s trying to get me to improve for her gain...

@thunderinglegion1 I’m not trying to change her.. seems like she’s trying to change me by telling me I need to do more I’m simply stating to her that shouldn’t be so dependent on me or anyone else Like okay example she got pissed at me once cuz her daughter needed milk n she asked me to get it...

@thunderinglegion1 I’m not trying to have her depend on me lol I’m trying to get her to stand on her own 2 feet so she can truly appreciate the fact I choose to do things that help her even though she doesn’t need my assistance It’s like when a person falls, yeah they can get up on their own...