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@lisajaner I had a 1.5kg 34 weeker and NICU stay 5 years ago. It still haunts me and hurts. The terrorized mind is real and people that write it off have not experienced it. Lucky them hey. Anyway, I want to say that I hear you, I see you and I know that you’ve looked into a darkness you can’t...

@mybridges There’s a shit load of stuff people should read- but no one thinks it’ll ever apply to them. Thank you for sharing. Good on you!

@vitality Erhh the endless screaming and sleepless nights were enough to go, nope I know my brain and it cannot handle that ever ever ever again. I think it was like form of brain self protective to have that awareness.

@paloma22 Yes, this was frustrating and fearful for me too. I thought, adhd for sure or something. I just had to drastically lower expectations. Think, white carpets, white walls, magazine clean home prior to my son- nah not reality for a child. Yep, so your son wants to use the sofa to build...

@katrina2017 That’s not lazy parenting. That’s very emotional intelligent parenting to suspend frustrations/annoyances and see big picture. Small problems vs big problems.

@arbin Yes it does get better. I had a similar thing happen but mine was placenta accreta found during c-section. They were close to full hysterectomy once baby was out. I was told in recovery what’s gone on, recommend to not go on to have any further pregnancy. It was a shock. I was more scared...

@vash07 Gosh I can’t answer your question but I sympathize. I noticed with your profession you would be amazing for a AMA on this thread or a parenting one.

@katrina2017 Yes !! This!!! It’s a series of moments that just go, you know what no, this is just all too painful, too hurtful. I hear you, I see you. We had NICU, operations, babies heart condition, I had PPD and psychosis. My marriage is fucked, there is still anger and torment that lingers...