Search results

@katrina2017 All communications were ordered to go through 1 coparenting app. And I'm pretty confident she doesn't know I'm the primary contact for the pediatrician's office.

@katrina2017 Both of us, and mostly equally. Neither one of us wanted to miss those things. The only big imbalance was me taking the kids in and picking them up from school ~4/5 times a week. And I would keep track of and file the medical records or important documents.

@joyfilled She might be grieving, but she was not the primary caregiver. She works full time, and so do I. We shared all care for the kids on a daily basis before the separation. If anything, she would go out to the gym twice a week and "shopping" with her friends a couple of weekends a month...

@lawlord I went through so much stress and kept listening to the advice of my lawyer and friends to be the bigger person and not fight her for our kids directly in front of the kids (like, go to their school before her and try picking them up). And I know it caused my oldest severe anxiety...

@nguyencuong9102 Definitely not remove them from the other parent. I'm still all for joint physical custody. But knowing her and her struggles with being an adult, I'd rather keep the legal custody in my own court as I consider myself the responsible adult. I'd like to see her be responsible...

@tomboy480 I have a friend who is a paralegal who deals with domestic/family cases all the time. He's suggested I document all the times she's demonstrated she's not able to coparent and I take it to my lawyer and the courts again. He said I could get sole legal custody because of her actions.

@abeazishar What would be the result of that?

We had a temporary custody hearing last week and we were granted 50/50 joint legal and physical custody of our children (3 & 5 y/o). She was withholding them before the hearing and tried to get sole custody of them during the hearing (for who know why?). Regardless of her intentions, joint 50/50...