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@jdsnyd My husband and I decided to not make big decisions this year as I am still going through PP and feelings are all over the place so I will definitely take your suggestion on this one. Thank you for your input 😊

@k_j Yes this is so important to me too! It’s does make me sad to know she will be alone in the end, but I do plan on making it as easy and smooth as possible for her. Thank you for your input (:

@seeker01 This is such a smart way to go about the EOL situation and I’m definitely going to take this and apply it because I’d hate to burden her with having to do it all for me. Thanks so much for your response 😊

@galworth This is my main reason for only wanting her. Things are so expensive and my husband is currently doing his best to provide for both of us. I work from home part time so we’re in the sweet spot of having enough resources to cover everything and have a little extra. Thank you for your...

@ommo For sure! It’s not so much pressure that I feel. I think it’s more guilt of making a wrong choice. Thanks for this 😊

@katrina2017 I hope my daughter is this way lol fingers crossed 😅

@rashida1980 My daughter is so small still I really hope she loves being the only one because idk if I can’t resist her asking for a sibling. I’m going to give it time. I come from a family of 5 and yes not all of us are super close so that totally makes sense!

@dontwo Thank you 🙏🏼 time will tell. I’ll remember that 😊

@james121paul I love some factual evidence and will definitely look into this myself. Thank you 😊

@bayamma Love the pros and cons list! Yes EOL is something I worry about with my daughter, but others have suggested to just start planning early and that children don’t always come around to help even if you have more. It sucks that your parents kept you so sheltered and it seems that we have...

@agnosticatheist Ahh yes that part(: we feel happy now I think we’ll keep it just us for a while and see what time will tell.

@gtdispomed9093 I’m 6 months PP and I feel like I’m barely getting a break. My husband is also a very hands on dad and helps me so much. It just feels like I have so many people telling me if you want the second one just do it soon other wise it’s like starting all over again if you wait longer...

@tomorrowtoday Good for you for shifting perspectives. I think ultimately I might be a one and done person, but from what other comments suggest I’m going to give it more time. Thanks for your input!

@travis2014 Omg how scary 😱 I definitely see your point. O&D is starting to feel more right for us too!

@anon527 Idk who gave us the impression that only children are spoiled and weird because the ones I’ve met are such unique individuals. Way to go with your son and hope he does well with his future!

@little1 I really hope my daughter feels this way about her life. I will do my best to make sure we have a plan for EOL situations because that couldn’t have been easy on you and your mom. So sorry for your loss and the loss of your pregnancies as well. Thank you for your input 😊

@muya So sorry to hear that. I can’t imagine going through child loss after carrying them and bonding with them for so long. I hope that grief is not overwhelming everyday but I know that cant be easy to deal with. My pregnancy was great all around but it scares me that this could be a possible...

@endquote just saw that page seconds after posting this…thank you for sharing the other 👍🏼

I’m a mom of 1 beautiful, healthy, energetic baby girl. I often feel so content with just her and my husband that I think I don’t want anything to change. Then I question if I’m being selfish by not giving her a sibling to grow up with. Can I hear from parents and maybe only children on this...