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@phillips Oh man…this gives me a lot to think about lol. Great perspective (: thank you for this!

@confused71f3 Exactly! My husband and I are in a great spot right now and we just want to focus on our daughter having a great life and being a great human being. Thank you for your input (:

@ceasar8 Wow that’s rough. I can see why that could be so exhausting as a mother taking on the care and responsibility all by yourself. It scares me what the second pregnancy could be like and idk I’d much rather be thankful the first one worked out the way it did and just keep it that way. It’s...

@mrmonroe Totally makes sense! Thanks for pointing that out. I plan on being a very involved parent. My daughter was planned so I knew that this is what I wanted and I am prepared to give her my best self. I won’t be having another until I feel the same way I did about her. Thank you 🙏🏼 😊

@poetryoflife1971 I guess I’m just unsure then 🤷🏽‍♀️idk that I’ve had this feeling yet.

@jaydenhope I totally get it. I struggle with the decision because I literally grew up the way you’re explaining your kids are. So I know how cool and fun it can be as a kid, but as an adult idk if I can handle another. I’ll keep it in mind tho and just let time decide. Thank you 😊

@phos4ohs That’s so tough. I think I forget that infertility affects so many women. I’m truly blessed and you just reminded me of that. Thank you 😊

@me34571 I’m finding this to be the case in a lot of the comments and family dynamics. I’m pretty set for now but I think time will tell and I’ll just keep in mind that my mind can change. Thank you for your input (:

@ellemess This is so true! Maybe I’m just getting a little ahead of myself right now. Just gonna roll with the punches from now on 😊

@aishin Yes I will remember that and take it day by day 😊

@aishin My daughter is 6 months atm. I think about the future and her being alone after I’m gone. That’s what makes me feel guilty. Thank you for your perspective(:

@contrabar I think 5 years isn’t that bad of a gap. I’ve considered this if there were to be a second because at least she’d be more independent and going to school by then.

@contrabar Thank you! 😊 my heart is telling me no more, but all the comments and suggestions makes me think to give it time too.

@adamsapple Does your son feel disconnected from the siblings he has now with that much of an age gap? I only ask because you never know and if by some chance I end up pregnant unexpectedly when she’s much older I’d like to be prepared for any challenges with bonding.

@jabberducki I totally agree! I would say I am a very actively involved parent and I hope that, even if I don’t have another, my daughter will never feel alone. Thanks so much for your input(:

@rambone I’m am so sorry for your loss. I too have a brother and I couldn’t imagine him being gone. My heart breaks for you. Grief can be so consuming. I hope he is with you when you need it most. 🙏🏼

@akemi Yes I plan on being a very active parent on that end. And your right I know I don’t have to make permanent decisions today and I can change my mind. I just have to remember that lol thank you for your input(:

@beautifulsoul20 Trueeeee 👍🏼

@fimpn LOL I was this teen but my family was frugal and now I know why 😬 thank you for your input.

@silentthunderstorm I have a younger (by 12 years) sister that’s is in your shoes exactly lol I guess I didn’t even think to view her perspective as the youngest. I know siblings don’t equal bffs but I also come from a culture where siblings are always around even when we’re fighting. I don’t...