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@mathea So true!! What a great perspective! My husband is also completely content with one and done, he has no question, but supports my questions. I will say the price is really big too. We want to be able to provide the best for him and we want to help pay for college, whatever he chooses to...

@mathea Also, thank you for your vulnerability with sharing your health scare with me. That also really hits home, there are some health issues on both sides of our family that are genetic and could really change things for us with just a blink of an eye

@maramoo Thank you!! I’ll go read these!

@jameslouise Thank you!!! It does feel so comforting to know I’m not alone in all these rollercoasters of feelings

@hkra You know that’s really true, the responsibility of a second kiddo if that was needed would go on the first. Even as an oldest and my siblings are good I do still feel responsible to help them when needed and to help with their kids, that’s really really true

@hkra My husband says the same thing! That we’ll get to share memories with whoever is his forever person and that will be more impactful. That we both spend more time together with each other than we do our siblings and that we have friends and other people we spend holidays with. You choose to...

@s010 Thank you!

@jameslouise Thank you!!

@christdisciple Woah…. This is really helpful. See my three biggest things are fear based What if something happens to him would we be able to keep going? When we die will he regret not having a sibling? Will we regret not having another one? But at the same time in the day to day we...

@kingsley123 Thank you!

@hkra Thank you! Such great thoughts!

@clayjars That is another thing! We are so grateful for his health! We’ve had some scares, but he is a happy healthy little dude. I also agree that we only get to raise our kiddo once and if we only have one we don’t have split that time but instead completely invest in him as much as we can. We...

So I didn’t know this sub even was a thing until someone suggested I join. So my husband and I have an almost four year old. We always thought we would have two kids, but in the last almost four years we haven’t felt that “need” to have a second. We are super content with our little family...