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Another thing I suggest is prioritizing what matters most to the other person. After the kids are fed, clothed, and cleaned, what other things are the two of you doing? Ask each other what you prioritize most after that. I can tell you from his perspective that it's probably his job. He cares...

Suggestions from people saying to have him do his own clothes are very much going to make all your problems worse. Like I said, he doesn't empathize. If you do less, you're validating his unjustified belief. He'll do less. He'll become bitter. You'll likely go into a passive-aggressive death...

@cliffco This is the hardest time in our lives. This is when most divorced happen. It's because we're struggling to empathize with our partners. He doesn't understand what you do and you don't understand what he does. Sounds like (from you doing his laundry and preparing his meal) that you try...