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    Looking for Twins resources!

    @onlyonetruth Gentle correction… r/twins is more for twins to talk about being a twin. r/parentsofmultiples will be a better fit :)
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    About to start an all night 12 hour drive w a 6 week old and 2.5 year old. Appreciate some positive vibes fellow fathers

    @yoursweetestmemory This is well-meaning but dangerous advice. It’s easy to be a little lost in your own music and not hear another car horn. It’s also straight up illegal in some areas (California, Ohio, and Maryland, among other US states) to wear headphones while driving, so take this with a...
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    Which transition was hardest?

    @texan2 I think the verdict from these threads is that every family is different and the answer wildly depends on who you ask. Top several comments all have a different number answer!
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    Help! Flying with 3 (4,4,2)

    @raine93 Where are you flying from/to? Most medium-large airports in North America have rentable carts (for a few dollars) at baggage claim for the exact purpose of loading up luggage when you have a bunch of bags you need to transport to your rental car or taxi.
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    In my feelings re: Michelle Wolf childbirth piece

    @robertnethromik Not necessarily. The hospital I was at had certified nurse midwives and you could still get an epidural.
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    Family related work in school

    @towerwatchman Why catastrophize something for your kid where they may not be fazed? If she seems down, absolutely ask her what’s up, but I don’t think it’s a good idea to preemptively insert your own feelings of guilt and sadness into her school projects.
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    OAD decision timeline

    @renette My friend advised me to write down all the horrors of pregnancy, delivery, and postpartum in detail for yourself to look at later when you suddenly get baby fever when your little one is a toddler. I thought that was great advice. We are religious and surrounded by people who have...
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    Are you OAD because you're scared of childbirth? C-sec to VBAC

    @calebm I agree on the years and years of recovery being a big reason. I had an unplanned c section and my doc told me at my 6 week check up that I’d actually never be fully back to normal ever again, and I would likely experience weakness and pain and numbness for years to come. My mom who...
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    Having a sixths baby?

    @alex_t My parents had accidental twins when they were 41 (mom) and 45 (dad). They were horrified at first, but they ended up saying it was the best thing to ever happen to them and brought them a lot of joy. They had a lot less energy to play with us, but still made an effort for not-floor...
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    I’m able to handle more than my only on occasion because I’m not stretched too thin

    @catlover88 I’m so looking forward to this when my baby is older! You’re a great friend.
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    B. B. R. C

    @silas1325 Smart! How much reading is “read a book”?
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    Saving $$$ for kiddo's - Guide

    @mathetes66 You might try a finance sub for posts like this.
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