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    Naming issues with mom... How do I revisit this with her?

    @ja38son I understand your reasoning. I have responded to others with more information that would happen to assist in your understanding. I actually appreciate the rational thinking. If I didn’t have a deeper meaning than just the comic was wool... I’d be concerned too.
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    Naming issues with mom... How do I revisit this with her?

    @hiyall Unfortunately I know all too well what the big guy would do. Step 1: Express himself She ignores him Step 2: Try again She does it again Step 3: Cry about it Step 4: Try one last time She is still ignoring his request Step 5: Explain that he understands her wants but that she is...
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    Naming issues with mom... How do I revisit this with her?

    @hiyall I do have a 10 year old from a previous relationship. His initials are C.I.A. I worked security 3rd party for a federal building for a few years. This isn’t a random thing that I just tried to do. This was talked about. She knew the intention and there were no ill feelings from her on...
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    Naming issues with mom... How do I revisit this with her?

    @katrina2017 I’m getting out of work late. About to go home shortly(in about 15 minutes & then a 15 minute drive) and talk. I’m reminding myself to stay open minded, fair, non-upset and as unbiased as possible(impossible I know, but I can def view from another’s perspective).
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    Naming issues with mom... How do I revisit this with her?

    @cathb The first guy walked out almost immediately. In our first month or two of dating I had spent more time with his kid than he has in all 3 years. First kid has her last name. And when married she wants to change all three of their names to just my last name.
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    Naming issues with mom... How do I revisit this with her?

    Here is an update. The moddle name she has added (E) is the name of a cousin that tried to carry two children to full term and failed. This relative can not have children now. When she told the relative, they were super happy and even cried. This came out in the middle of an (air quotations)...
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    Naming issues with mom... How do I revisit this with her?

    Mom and myself talked about baby names before she was even pregnant. We had a full name chosen. All was perfect. A few months later after a cruise, we found out we were pregnant. OK! GAME TIME! Life is happening and I’m super excited... It’s my first biological child. The name for our child...
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