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    My 11 y.o. daughter doesn't like her dad

    @katrina2017 I should clarify that I do not worry for her physical safety with him. The incidents that happened occurred with a colicky baby and a very young dad, only 23. I am not excusing what he did and that is the ONLY reason I left him. We were ill-suited in the long run, but could've had a...
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    My 11 y.o. daughter doesn't like her dad

    @katrina2017 Nah. I haven't alienated this man and have done everything I could think of to keep their relationship afloat. He didn't even want to see her her first two years of life after we split, but I encouraged it enough that he would stop by my house once every other week or so and say hi...
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    My 11 y.o. daughter doesn't like her dad

    @katrina2017 If you have a custody agreement and your children do not go, you can be held in contempt of court. Especially in Missouri, which is a 50/50 state almost exclusively and Scott is a cop. We do not have a custody agreement but if we did, I would have to work within those terms and that...
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    My 11 y.o. daughter doesn't like her dad

    @farmerphil Also, LEO as a law enforcement officer, not the zodiac sign ☺️
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    My 11 y.o. daughter doesn't like her dad

    @farmerphil I'm really sorry that you struggle with anxiety and depression. Those are very tough illnesses, especially to have as a parent. I'm glad you've got your mom as a support team. Scott and I've had sit down conversations alone and with Kayla to discuss how to make their relationship...
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    My 11 y.o. daughter doesn't like her dad

    @aubsessedtllc We've talked about this so many times with him, but I don't think I've ever actually asked if I should force her, especially at this age. I'm going to ask him the next time he wants her to come over to his house.
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    My 11 y.o. daughter doesn't like her dad

    @eppievillaruel Thank you for your advice. Her therapist hasn't made any recommendations yet, but Kayla has been extremely stingy with her words about her dad and they haven't discussed it very much. He called her last night and apologized for what happened on Christmas Eve AND for not...
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    My 11 y.o. daughter doesn't like her dad

    @eppievillaruel Thanks so much for replying to my first post, ever! Kayla is in therapy. She's been going to a really great therapist for about 2 months. I've asked her to invite her dad to go and she is adamant that if he comes, she will stop talking. On the ride back from the store today, I...
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    My 11 y.o. daughter doesn't like her dad

    My 11 year old daughter cannot stand her father. She doesn't want to go over to his home, ever. It is a fight nearly every single time that she needs to go there and it is getting worse. We do not have a custody agreement because we split up when she was 3 months old and for the most part, do...
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