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@katrina2017 I suppose this is when it’s better to ask questions than make assumptions

@katrina2017 She is trying to coparent though. At some point, it’s detrimental to force a child to visit a parent against the child’s will. She’s got the kid in counseling and it’s on the dad to repair the damaged relationship. He’s an adult; he doesn’t need his ex wife navigating this for him...

@bluecoke541 Yeah this comment confused me too... the expectation is that the mom facilitates the relationship and the dad is responsible for none of the effort, yet then the claim is alienation. Sounds like a lot of projection to me.

@sylvianlight That last paragraph is exactly the right attitude to take. It’s their relationship, so he is the one that needs to put in the work to fix it. I’m sure as a mom (and I’m going through something similar with my 7yo but nowhere near as bad as what you’ve described. She just doesn’t...

@sylvianlight So glad to hear she’s in therapy 🙂 If she decides she isn’t missing anything and never goes back, then so be it. It doesn’t really sound like she or her dad are all that determined to have a good relationship and you shouldn’t want that for them more than they want it, you know...

@sylvianlight First step: counseling for her And she’s old enough that she should have a say in this... if she’s not comfortable being there, then it could be detrimental to force her to go. Maybe reduce the amount of time she’s with him? But counseling first without a doubt, and maybe if her...