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@agapeos1080 You have the other adult in your home on it, so it would make sense that the other adult living in his home is on it. The more people the better incase there was an actual emergency and for some reason no one on your list was reachable.

@msmia I honestly don’t see what the problem is. Your kid doesn’t need to do everything twice.

@vidacek1234 I would maybe say “so I have a friend I’ve been getting close with and seeing casually, we’ve decided to get more serious and I just wanted to give you a heads up. The kids have already met her so it should be a smooth transition” But if things don’t work out and you end up dating...

@vidacek1234 I have no clue what your ex is talking about. Plenty of single parents date when they have infants. They don’t wait 3 years to introduce their kid to their partner. Obviously because of abuse concerns it’s great if your kids can talk but it sounds like you are present while she’s...

@tms7981 If there is a valid reason OP should be aware of it. A random hand written note in a child’s backpack with no explanation is totally weird and inappropriate.

@jetsetbass She can’t take you to court over this. I can understand her apprehension, especially considering she is so far away from her child right now. That doesn’t mean she has the right to demean you. If it were me I would pick my child up myself. You are a grown up. You can handle an...

@lzz If you get every other weekend then he should get weekdays as a compromise. I agree parenting plan sucks when one parent is doing the whole mon-fri school week routine and one gets all the weekends. During the week if they’re in school or/and you’re working you only get to see them for like...

@espy My point is that this is not a favour for his ex. It is a very simple thing for his child. The visit has nothing to do with the child’s mother, other than it was her idea. This is a gift of time with very special people for his child. That’s all.

@espy Mom acted like a jerk, but it’s honestly super immature that the reason dad didn’t go and drop off/pick up his own child while in a foreign country is because he wants to avoid an awkward few seconds. Moms behaviour is inexcusable, but that doesn’t mean she’s wrong. Had she delivered her...

@straw23 I would absolutely not feel comfortable with a strangers children staying with me in a hotel room, nor would I allow my child to stay with a stranger in theirs. This is an extremely weird suggestion. Why do the adults need to get to know other people’s kids better anyway? And in a...

@espy He’s on a 21 day vacation and considering the grandparents probably rarely get to see the child it makes sense to do the visit. It’s the child’s relationship too and all grandparents are important.

@walkerdavis She has permission to move. She just hasn’t been told where her ex is moving. It sounds like she has more than enough documentation to show that her ex is aware of this and in agreement.

@apostoliclife I’m not saying you have to hold her hand through being a parent. I’m saying you advocate for your child. Your ex is an adult. They aren’t your priority. Offer a schedule for visits and if she shows up then great. Use a visitation centre if you don’t want to supervise. I’m just...

@walkerdavis One hour there, one hour back.

@apostoliclife According to CPS and wherever they get their research it is best for your child’s well-being not to sever ties. That being said you need to make sure your child has opportunities to know who their mom is in a safe way in which they are being supported. You also need to help them...

@enette I would make it clear in your legal consult that dad had already given you notice he is moving out of your child’s current residential area after his wedding. He’s already notified you he is moving. If you have anything in writing showing he’s agreed to you moving as well you should...

@enette Can’t you sell your house with a closing date in June? It’s already mid April. If I were you I would just move to city A. You have to give dad your notice of moving and you are already cutting it close. It’s really not fair to your boyfriends kids to have a 2 hour back and forth...

@donat Adults make bad choices sometimes and when they are making bad choices it is up to them to get help for that, just like we go to the doctor if we have a stomach ache. If an adults brain is making bad choices it’s their responsibility to get help for that the same way. It is no ones fault...

@apostoliclife As a former addict I’m sure you know that being sober doesn’t always stick. That’s why it’s best for your own well being that you do not live with or have a relationship with another addict. Especially one who’s active in their addiction and hasn’t shown a long track record of...

@athena1312138 No. Absolute not. If you want to be extra accommodating have a BBQ, invite your friends, invite your ex. That way she can meet them without it being weird. I have a feeling though she will not like your friends and it will just cause you more problems. As far as your girlfriend...