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    Kids father planning to vanish until they’re 18

    You need to be smart about this. As a mom, all you can think about is how they’re hurting and you’re wanting to make it better. I’d advise you for reasons it’d take too long to get into NOT to go out of your way to involve him. My guess is he’s emotional and reacting, but that he will want a...
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    Kids father planning to vanish until they’re 18

    @techyinaz You need a court order outling visitation and child support. This will give him rights and access and if he’s not exercising it, you can go back to court to have the order revised. Men are a lot more likely to spend time with their children if they feel like they are “paying for it.”...
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    Kids father planning to vanish until they’re 18

    @nikkey76 the opposite is generally true. men tend to want to get “what they pay for”
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    I(21)F crushing on manager (42) M

    Although being a coworker, as they say don’t eat where you 💩
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    I(21)F crushing on manager (42) M

    @natanyah About dream meanings - although they can be wish fulfillment, usually a dream of intimacy is about a desire to know someone more (not romantically). It’s really not a good idea to get involved for a couple of reasons (and at least subconsciously you’re already processing this)...
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    Kids father planning to vanish until they’re 18

    @christmasismyfavorite A good parent never makes the other parent look bad. Unfortunately, that can mean lying (he’s traveling for work, he misses you too).
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    Kids father planning to vanish until they’re 18

    @vespertinus I’d be really careful about #1. It can come back and bite you.
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    Opinions on nudity in the household

    @nonaffiliated I think if everyone in the household is the same gender it’s probably ok. Maybe better to get a sleep bra to wear though? Kids do tell all at school, so it’s up to you if you’re willing to have your lifestyle out… and also consider social impact for the child as well. Kids can be...
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    Kids father planning to vanish until they’re 18

    @canuckgramz men are more likely to exercise possession when paying support, especially if exercising possession gets them a reduction in it
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    Is an inconsistent father worth being in a kids life?

    @nothingtoknow Get an attorney. Do it now. Log every thing. Every communication, every visitation. Pick up and drop off times. Don’t be the only one making the effort to have him be more involved. I’ve seen dads like this. He’s checked out (for whatever reason) and will ask for the custody...
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    Is an inconsistent father worth being in a kids life?

    @katrina2017 Be very careful… a lot of men push for increased custody and rights after remarrying.
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