@arielleshapiro My number one tip: spend a week being the primary carer of the baby. Yes, put your job on hold. It's just a job. Seriously. This is a viral time to bond and understand what is going on.
@hysterical Yep, best if you know people who have kids 1-3 years older than yours and cut out the second hand shops.
When your kids grow, be the people that cut other parents a nice deal. Raising a kid is hard enough on its own, pay it forward