@zahrajoi That's terrible, I'm sorry to hear that. You are such a good person to wish for other's to get their baby soon 💜. I hope your operation and recovery goes well, and that you find ways to cope with your absolutely shitty situation.
@1grace And my point was that if I'd believe in anecdotal advice, I'd take your comment as advice as well. But I prefer real data instead of anecdata :D
@1grace Hmm, this sounds like stress actually helps, I'll try setting more deadlines and confront myself daily with not having a baby yet!
Somehow you don't hear that but it has the same evidence as the vacation advice.