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@lrkamp Yeah. I mean I appreciate that he really values education and loves learning, but it's just hard to plan life around

@lrkamp Yeah and I totally support him in going to school! But, he's not even sure he wants to be a professor anymore, which is what he wants the PhD for. Mostly I'm just baby hungry and Don't want to wait another possibly 10 years. I realize I'm youngish, but my oldest sister has been trying to...

@lrkamp To be fair, I wasn't interested in having kids until this last year. And every time we've talked about having a family, he's always said that he did want one, just not for a long time. He and his siblings were abused by their dad who had been abused by his parents, but he has mentioned...

@bernard222 Waiting to graduate college and for one of us to be in a job with health insurance 4 years so far It keeps changing, but I'm hoping summer 2019 He's all for the waiting. Some days, he says taking about kids stresses him out. Other days, he gets worried that something will make it so...

@lrkamp Not my husband. Even when we were dating, he was like "I guess I would do the responsible thing" when we talked about the possibility of getting pregnant. The most excited he's ever been was when we thought I was pregnant on accident last summer. But since we got the negative, he won't...

@hagiang3396 It's easier that way I think... It still hurts a little, but it's more like a twinge than the despair of getting basically rejected by your SO all the time.. not to sound dramatic......

@hagiang3396 I'm only about two years in. But recently I've been feeling like at least emotionally I'd be better off if I just assumed we'd never have kids. It was working for me, but I started to get the uterus and heart pangs every time I saw a kid again. I don't know that my heart will ever...