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@huffnpuff There is an official order - I’ve looked into it though and in my country I can cancel a visit if there is a reason. Important school events are the reason in this case. I’m also technically not cancelling the weekend he just doesn’t want to take her and so he is cancelling indirectly...

@sandflea Well in this case it’s not about my convenience she has an event he doesn’t want to take her to because it’s 40min away. The weekend before last he cancelled because he was sick so that’s not on me.

@childofgod001 He lives 40min away from her school. He has known about the sports day for a month. He refuses to take her there and back etc. It’s a new school she’s been training hard for this sports day and she’s so excited about it. He just won’t see her this weekend then I guess or the...

@brandonsmith13 I think my original question wasn’t really about controlling my ex it was more about what do other co-parents do in this situation and what’s considered the “norm”. I personally think things should be more flexible. If he refuses to attend her school events then it puts a huge...

@mooches1 Honestly I think he might which is something I could work with but I also think he is just incredibly selfish and never takes responsibility for things. For instance he really enjoys drinking which isn’t a kid friendly activity and so he wants his weekends to do what he wants is my...

@drybomber I’ve asked this and he refuses this. He is so inflexible. I understand not wanting to change the schedule I like being organised too but if there are some hiccups we can’t control (like illness or a school event) then surely in these cases flexibility is needed rather than zero...

@teresabw He refuses to take her to the sports day. We live 40min away. He doesn’t go to any of her school events (hasn’t since birth). He only does the schedule. If he misses a weekend then it means she won’t see him for a month. I don’t think that’s cool. But maybe it just means it’s not my...

@silkybunny My question wasn’t really “can I force my ex…” it was more me wanting to know if he or I are being unreasonable and what do other parents do with cancellations

TLDR: ex won’t make up for missed visits, is this reasonable? My ex sees my daughter every other weekend. He won’t see her for any extra days (including holidays)..he wants to stick to the schedule and only the schedule which is every second weekend. When my ex cancels a weekend with her...