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    Who here has a mediocre relationship with their sibling(s)?

    @ernesjohnson Close as kids, drama of adulthood made us amicable when together but rarely talk. He’s 2.5 years older. My husband and friends are my chosen family 🥰
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    OAD by choice - when did you/your S.O. get a vasectomy?

    @jenny777 My husband got his just after our girl’s third birthday, but we’ve been sure of OAD since her birth basically! I just knew I didn’t want to do the newborn phase again.
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    OAD decision timeline

    @renette My usual comment back (although my family has stopped pressuring thank goodness so I feel your pain) is “My family is perfect” or “my family feels complete”. My FIL a year and a half ago casually mentioned a second and my husband piped up, “I thought we told you not to bring that up...
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    OAD decision timeline

    @renette I originally was just going to stay on the pill until 35 and he’d then get a vasectomy, but then I had anxiety about pregnancy so he got the vasectomy in October. My daughter was newly 3 years old, my husband was 33 and me 32. SO happy we went with the vasectomy!
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    Factors that contributed to your OAD decision

    @walid373 shouldihaveanother is another great place for this discussion! Personally, newborn phase, didn’t want another, only have bandwidth for one, love my career, the further we get from the baby years the less we want to go back to square one. Maybe donate that embryo to a family in need if...
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    6w pregnant with our first and only, the first challenge to OAD popped up and was slammed down

    @farmerdan You have more guts than me! Good on ya!
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