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    FTM Weight Gain Questions

    @nicole89 i said this on another post here but you DO NOT have to weigh in at the OB. you can tell them that you are declining to get on the scale and are monitoring your weight at home. that being said. i agree with everyone saying look for another OB. this one is not going to be good for you...
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    Fear withholding pregnancy

    @scottcutarug anytime! 🖤
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    Fear withholding pregnancy

    @scottcutarug it’s a rough road. but i know you can get through it 🖤
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    Frustrated, so mostly venting

    @wisaak i’m not sure where you’re located. but if you have a local planned parenthood (or something similar) sometimes they can do confirmation ultrasounds!
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    Fear withholding pregnancy

    @scottcutarug i know people say this all the time. but seriously. seek therapy. it is COMMON to have this fear. i was TERRIFIED of pregnancy and it felt debilitating at times. now that im pregnant i still have moments where i think “omg what if something happens to me” but therapy has really...
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    Disappointed and no VBAC

    @dm1057 unfortunately where i’m at, the health system has a monopoly on EVERYTHING. there isn’t a doctor i can go to that isn’t part of our local health system :/
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    Disappointed and no VBAC

    @yytg12 because they’re saying there’s a chance of rupture. but won’t answer me when i say that others have done it with no issues in less time than mine are (3 years apart instead of my 10). they ONLY cite chance of uterine rupture when i know the chances are slim. and it’s frustrating to not...
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    Disappointed and no VBAC

    @yytg12 obviously at the end of the day. i don’t have a choice and ill do whatever my doctor tells me to do. i’m not going to go rogue. but it would be nice to have a discussion about it and i’m allowed to be frustrated with it.
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    Disappointed and no VBAC

    @dutyandthebeast i know they want to take me for c section “around 39 weeks” maybe i can ask to push if i go into labor before that? i’m almost scared to ask at this point lol
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    Disappointed and no VBAC

    @butterscoth yeah not quite there yet lol
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    Disappointed and no VBAC

    @butterscoth advanced maternal age hasn’t been mentioned to me at all this pregnancy. they are very focused on my past history.
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    Disappointed and no VBAC

    @butterscoth i’m 33 this year.
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    Disappointed and no VBAC

    let me start off by saying i UNDERSTAND why my doctors are telling me no. but i still don’t like it my first baby was emergency c section bc i wasnt dilating. second was emergency bc my water had been leaking for at least a week 5 weeks early and they wanted to get her fast. that was almost...
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    Seeing Movement Outside Of Stomach?

    @lone_disciple omg we are the same height weight weeks and everything 😂😂😂 i’ve been able to see some little kicks on my upper belly when he’s in the right position. my placenta is whatever the orientation is that makes it hard to see some movement. but i think ive been lucky! fingers crossed we...
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