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    Pediatrician says I’m nursing my 4 week old too often - not sure what to do

    @christopher000 Your pediatrician is an idiot
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    I had to listen to my SiLs baby CIO over the holidays

    @kristyrh God I hate people
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    Toddler loves pushing my newly walking baby and I feel lost

    @diademjewel So what I do when my toddler is being tough with my 11 month old is I say I won’t let you hurt us and I go to another room with the baby and tell my son that we come down to play again when he’s ready to be calm and safe with his body. This typically brings on tears of course so...
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    How do you control your rage when your child physically hurts you?

    @thenewman1 My son is a superstar in preschool. Absolutely no issues!
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    How do you control your rage when your child physically hurts you?

    @mm1992 What does qualified for services mean?
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    How do you control your rage when your child physically hurts you?

    @katrina2017 He’s all the way potty trained he just is holding his poop in bc it hurts and it hurts bc he’s holding it in.
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    How do you control your rage when your child physically hurts you?

    @katrina2017 Right I know that. I don’t get upset and angry until he physically hurts me. Something about the pain of a hard bite sends me into rage. And it’s related to potty for him and that’s why he bites. I know I am a bad mom I’m also looking up parenting classes in my area.
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    How do you control your rage when your child physically hurts you?

    @mm1992 That is absolutely what it sounds like. Never knew about this but it makes so much sense.
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    How do you control your rage when your child physically hurts you?

    @mm1992 And edit to add: he has zero issues with potty or behavior at preschool. We just had his parent teacher conference on Friday and he said he’s doing amazing so I don’t understand.
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    20-30 minute naps

    @sherbetmayhem How do you typically have her nap?
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    How do you control your rage when your child physically hurts you?

    @mm1992 He’s aggressive when he’s under any kind of uncomfortable situation. Too tired, too hungry, has to poop, has to pee. The intense biting tends to be when he’s constipated or stool withholding I have noticed. I yell at him in his face bc it’s so painful. Then I apologize and we move on...
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    How do you control your rage when your child physically hurts you?

    @themagicman It sounds like it’s absolutely not the norm! Something is up and it’s both him and I! We don’t make a good pair it seems.
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    20-30 minute naps

    @sunsetrose I thought 18 months was more appropriate
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    How do you control your rage when your child physically hurts you?

    @7even7eas Good suggestions. I try to avoid social media too that’s a big one for me. Husband is the same way as I but a tiny bit more patient. He just says hit him back but that’s his culture. He’s a hard person to vent to bc his solutions to my problems just don’t align. Lack of sleep is...
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    How do you control your rage when your child physically hurts you?

    @asphaltpotato Yep it’s the reason I’m back in therapy too. And while therapy has helped me it’s not solving the issue going on with my child. My therapist basically told me to take a time out for myself and leave him in a safe area until I’ve calmed down. Problem is my son follows me...
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    How do you control your rage when your child physically hurts you?

    @parsonbrown I’m definitely not helping with the regulating of his emotions with support though. I just add fuel to the fire bc I get so angry and it turns into a vicious cycle until I finally can get some space from him and can calm down. He can regulate once I regulate. I’m the big issue in...
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    Is the preschooler age supposed to br this exhausting/what am I doing wrong?

    @lizlugo51 I believe I have borderline too !
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    How do you control your rage when your child physically hurts you?

    @parsonbrown Yeah I just have to close the door on him or I’ll snap. There will be a week with no issues and then the next week it’s all the time. I feel like I’m walking on eggshells around him bc sometimes I really can’t gauge how he’s doing to react. Some days there’s no issues with going to...
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