@anewday I think these decision-makers are actually so dumb that their stated reason is genuine. I think that was the actual push for them to take action and then they quickly realized Oh Wow We'll Also Be Able To Slash School Funding And Divert That Money To Nefarious Bullshit HOORAY
@doots He's... really fucked up. He didn't want to be bothered in that moment. Sure, ok. Instead of saying that or 999 other versions of that, he cursed you. And in hindsight he still thinks it's justified. He was supposed to verbalize his needs, but he abused you instead and he stands by that...
@aelfex You don't treat him like a wife is supposed to?? Completely idiotic. Let him know he is not treating you like a HUSBAND IS SUPPOSED TO. He's not parenting or doing household labor. But yet he is a parent and he lives in a household.
These are the choices he made. These choices require...