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@ebveloz Anecdotally my husband was apparently always a bad sleeper, MIL would just let him stay up until he decided he was tired, etc (and I’m not exaggerating because she did the same with our kids and we told her no…you need to follow somewhat of a bedtime). He still struggles to fall...

@kaleidoscopeheart I mean….you don’t. It’s not possible to stop being a cranky btch when you don’t have full time childcare (or even part time with your baby) while working full time. *Especially with a toddler and a baby!! Cut yourself some slack. Many of us did it during the pandemic…it is not...

@journierman You are in the middle of grief and impostor syndrome. But it sounds like your uncle is the impostor. Do NOT let him walk all over you. Your mom believed in you, the employees believe in you, and your uncle seems like an absolute fraudster way past when he should have retired...

@daphne1 I would consider therapy too then. If you feel you still haven’t connected properly you definitely could still have some PPD or PTSD from a traumatic labor. I did therapy when pregnant with my second and she had me focus a lot on my “automatic negative thoughts” (you can google that)...

@jaketmores Third. In my 1st birth I had the vacuum , 4th degree tear, episiotomy, retained placenta (OB had to reach up and pull it out - twice), induced overdue, etc. My second birth was really just fantastic and bright and happy which was not how I felt after my 1st birth. The data on both...

@abidingtv Please read the comment I just left under another thread here. My story is so much like yours but a 4th degree tear. And my 2nd is almost 2.5 and it feels like a distant memory, but I spent most of my pregnancy stressing about his birth. And it was great, minor tearing, and I felt...