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@bevans Ahh yes, oldest daughter. Lol. Thank you for this. I'll do research on being cared for and feelings that come up about it. I'm in the US and I'm involved now with some people who can also help. I'm proud you. You are a wonderful person. Thank you so much for this.

@david_thesalmst Thank you for all of this. We have an exchange system. She loves my cooking. We have a deal where I help with money, she helps with groceries and in exchange for her help, I feed us both. That way I don't feel it's so one sided. And I'll keep communicating.

@joman1988 And you will be and are an amazing mom for your daughter. You are gonna make mistakes. You will think she hates you. she will think she hates you some days, but in the end, you will have each other. Always.

@joman1988 This did help and never apologize about your English. You would be amazed what I can read and understand. :) it's my specialty. You are right. I should not feel guilty about this, I should feel blessed. Since I posted this, we spent yesterday together. I posted an update. This is...

@trob Thank you for this. And I am truly grateful. I try to tell her and show her. This is wonderful.

@lamb7 You know,you are absolutely right.I will enjoy this part of life.

@lamb7 I'll do that. :) thank you. Tell overthinking brain to stfu. ;)

@myjesus1797 Thank you for this. And for your perspective. This helps me see it in a different light. Part of my personality is not feeling deserving of good things. And that's my hang up that I am going to have to work through and let go of, or I'll never be truly happy and appreciative. I'm...

@katrina2017 Thank you for your empathy. You make some incredibly valid points. There are things I do for her. She doesn't have a car, so on days she comes over, I let her take the car home and keep it until I go back to work. She also doesn't mind running errands with me so it all works out. I...

@lilliumstar Just realized i put the update on the wrong sub

@lilliumstar smile * thanks. We have a lot of fun together. I asked her to come over later for dinner and I ordered out for dessert. After I invited her she said, " I'm so excited!" That made me feel better than anything she could have said or done. She was just excited to see me. That...

@lilliumstar Thank you for this. And yes, glad she is an ex friend. I got tired reading that lol. You are an amazing mom and you have an amazing family. Nothing is perfect, but you guys are close! Thank you for the invitation. I'll message. Can't remember if I mentioned it above, but I posted...

@lilliumstar Thank you. Sorry I missed this sooner. I'm glad you get where I'm coming from. And you are right, she would hate if I felt bad when she is nice to me. ( stems from abuse). I'm going to just enjoy our time. Thank you. Keep loving your family, and them loving you. :)

@katrina2017 Oh hey.... That's a good idea. I'm working with a vocational rehab that does things like this. I'll look into that! Thank you!!

@kbkxnightmare Thank you. I'm so glad for your perspective on this. And she does feel good doing things for me. I'll do more to relax my brain, accept and enjoy.

@dinofinney Thank you . and I'm very very lucky. I appreciate her so much. Edit: hit save too soon. Yes it is earlier than expected and i think that is what bothers me the most. I SHOULDN'T need help, but I do.

@steven992 Yes, this is a good idea. And I'd never demand anything from anyone. You are right, I should not feel guilty. I'll continue checking in with her and communicating. Thank you so much.

@gotonenerveleft Thank you.And they are amazing. I'll do that! That's a good idea! Little goodies and stuff. Thank you!! I'll do this!! I hope we are. I know I have wonderful memories and experiences with her when she comes over. Little things we say or do. Thank you so much!! I'll get right...

@katrina2017 Yes. This all resounded for me. Of course I would do all of these things for someone else, gladly. That makes sense. Thank you for this. This helps a lot. And I am UNBELIEVABLY proud of how she turned out. So so proud. She is amazing.

@schenngirl It does.