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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @amberlynnmccormick I will do that. I plan on getting her little things also to show how much and often I think of her. I would never demand anyone do anything for me. I don't understand people like that. I can hardly ASK for help, much less demand it. Thank you for what you do. And please...
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @katrina2017 I love that. I'm not the type of person that will correct help. I'm just grateful. Thank you for this bit of advice. I will keep it close in mind. And yes.no one should outlive their child. It ruins your life for a very long time and it never goes back to the same. I'm sending...
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @katrina2017 Thank you. Your words touched me so much. I will let her do what she likes and appreciate it. I'm so sorry you lost your mom. I feel like suicide is the worst. I lost a son to it. Thank you for what you do for your grandpa. Thank you for loving him.
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @saveableme You are welcome, my friend. Many continued blessings and good things for you in this life.
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @saveableme blush * thank you. I raised an incredible woman. I'd never be cruel. Not with a whole mind. I'm sorry it has been so hard on you. I wish I could have made/ make things easier for you. I'll make sure she is never hurt. As far as positive attitude, I think there is something...
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @rrlove Lol, I don't know about all that, but I try. Thank you!
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @rrlove Lol, this really made me smile. You are right. I need to enjoy the love I am receiving. Thank you. And thank you for taking care of your mom and dad. You are a good child to them. I'm proud of you as a human.
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @katrina2017 I appreciate it. I couldn't think of the word, thank you for it. I'm glad it's not as well
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @katrina2017 I looked into it and I don't think that is what this is. That was more of what I was afraid it was. Thank you for directing me to that.very insightful and actually set my mind at ease.
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @katrina2017 I'll look into it. I don't want this. Thank you.
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @se7ski This just sums it all up for me.this is how I feel. And it is just so hard to accept! I also do all the mom things, I just can't do it all at this time. And I feel like once I GET caught up, I can stay caught up. I used to do it all the time, i just need a little help is all. Thank you...
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @jzblunt90 Thank you. I'll do that. I did a lot of things wrong as a parent, but looking at them now, I did a lot of things right with them. And I'm incredibly proud of the woman she became. And just who she is as a human being. I am eternally grateful that I am not alone. I'm so sorry you...
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @godspell This almost brought a tear. I felt it in my soul. I did do a big thing asking for help and accepting it. Go me! I'll just have to accept their love as well! Thank you my friend
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @godspell Ok. This helps me a lot. We have talked about it, and she basically said the same thing you did,but as an abused person, I wasn't sure if she said it because she HAD to say it. You know? The trust issues run deep. Thank you so very very much for your perspective. It means a lot to me...
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @winning Thank you!! I will enjoy that she enjoys it. I have no right to take that from her because of pride or guilt. Thank you for what you do for your parents.
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @lizabey Yeah, that's going to be hard. Is there any option to set up help for her before you leave? By the way, thank you for what you do. You are a wonderful human being.
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @npeters618 This touched me so much. I feel all of this. And it has been SO much easier and I can do SO much more for myself with her help. I was stuck in a hole and now I see light. She is such a big help and a blessing in my life. I don't know what I would do without her. I will take this as...
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @more7307 Wow that's great. I'm so proud of you for doing this for her. Thank you for helping me see it from her perspective.
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @healingwords1 I like this. I'm proud of you for taking care of her This makes me feel better. Thank you.
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @bevans I've been using the subreddits and it has been a great help. I'll look into support groups. Thank you so much for this.
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