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@walterharr Ugh I'm sorry.

@hilbrand THANK YOU. LOUDER FOR THE KIDS IN THE BACK. I actually shared this with my husband once and even when I spelled out for him this is literally what he does, he did not get it (and it seems a few of the moms here don't get it either). It's not about the crumbs or dishes (or erasing my...

@jackos Both of you are trying to help, upvoting both... Lol

@hilbrand Thanks for the hugs and no worries, I got it covered. I am a gigantic breastfeeding/pumping nerd and I am already on the new protocol: Ice ice baby and Tylenol. Hugs back!

@guslund Thank you, kind internet stranger!! Points duly noted.

@jacquewoolard Haha thanks, I was being slightly facetious. Though my cleaner and her team are pretty nice and if they knew what was going on would probably want to help in other ways lol. Appreciate the support.

@jacquewoolard I wore him down and we do have a cleaner but she doesn't solve his lack of consideration

@catlover88 Thanks, appreciate the hug. Your questions are a good kick in the butt to really think through the details because I don't have a good answer to them! I feel like I've been in non-stop baby mode for the past four years and haven't had a chance to really think about anything other...

@metalgreymon Yeah, this whole thread has been eye-opening to me. I realized I didn't mention love anywhere. He says he loves me but those crumbs and "my family isn't/I'm not racist to you" comments don't say it. And when people suggested scheduling dates, the only thing I could think of is...

@wearethechristiangems Hope your kids (or grandkids) will actually enjoy your company! Edit: I do genuinely mean it. There have been hundreds of comments coming from many commenters who disagree with me and each other. People including myself have been snarky but none have tried to actually...

@wearethechristiangems Lmfao reddit wouldn't let me comment for some reason. But your comment deserved to be amplified and quoted back to you. Have a blessed life.

@wearethechristiangems Girlie where was the advice? Girlie other people have been vulnerable and open with providing action plans, step by step thoughts, and their personal experiences and then we have whatever this whole chain of thought is (enable his behavior and after a few logical leaps...

@search4truth1121 I'm on a relatively shorter fuse because I'm literally expelling uterine lining, parenting a newborn and toddler, and nursing an infected boob. What's your excuse, Karen? Your antagonism appears to come from a place of defensiveness. It sounds like you're taking your chosen...

@search4truth1121 If I'm being asked to be his manager then I need to be paid like one. Close the gender safe gap, don't do free labor! Lol at the two(/three? Four?) Karen's with no sense of humor downvoting (but also blocking?) me

@savedbygrace_777 Ah I get it. I'm dumb lol. Thanks for clarifying.

@bbarb I have an individual account that he can't touch, though it's visible through our budgeting app. I figure our assets get disclosed during a divorce anyway so I didn't think of setting up another private one.

@bbarb Estranged from family (abusive people). I've got my therapist but that's about it.

@armywife78 You'd think he would know better since this is the second time I've had mastitis. At least this time he didn't say it was all in my head. Seriously. I was running a 105 degree fever and particularly unfiltered so I asked him if he was being purposely incompetent and useless.

@adrian77 Thanks for sharing your experiences. My broken bowl salutes your broken toilet seat. I guess the additional positive spin is you got to offload some of the labor to a third party male. Honestly it rubs me the wrong way that a lot of the solutions suggested here are to hire a mommy's...

@faen I'm not in a situation where I have to get divorced now for my safety but it's getting to me. I oscillate between contempt and rage. Last week I broke a bowl in five places (by accident) because my anger had no other outlet than my poor bowl of oatmeal and mashed bananas.