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    Would Working Moms Prefer a Hybrid Model of Remote and In-Office?

    @rachele14 I would not like a hybrid model. I feel like trying to remember when I'm in office and when I'm not (especially when others are on the same model but on different days) and trying to schedule accordingly would just be one more moving part I don't want to manage. #teamallremote
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    Sometimes I feel like I am just bankrolling my husband’s identity crisis

    @nathan98 Brene Brown said it best that marriage is not 50/50. It's constantly shifting. Sometimes it's 50/50. sometimes 60/40, 70/30, sometimes it's 80/20, etc. And sometimes you both have 20 and you both have to figure out where TF you're going to find the rest. And that's what OP is trying to...
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    Sometimes I feel like I am just bankrolling my husband’s identity crisis

    @goldensleather You might check out some of the resources in the wiki for the r/ADHD_partners sub to see if anything speaks to you and your experience. Meds help, but can only take some people so far. ADHD can be rather complex. Yes, it's a different wiring of the brain, but it also can have a...
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    Sometimes I feel like I am just bankrolling my husband’s identity crisis

    @goldensleather Is your husband treating his ADHD? Meds or therapy? When I was reading this I was just like hmmm this seems like ADHD. Then you mentioned it. The inability to start or finish tasks that have lots of moving parts is a big symptom of un or under managed ADHD. Not saying it'll solve...
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    Is anyone else's pets driving you C R A Z Y during WFH?

    @myles0 No advice. My two dogs are driving me nuts. They used to never bark, but since WFH started back in March, now it's all they do. Mailman? bark like crazy! Lawncare? bark like crazy! SHM walking kids in a stroller in the general vicinity of the house? bark like crazy! I was on a early...
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    Sometimes I feel like I am just bankrolling my husband’s identity crisis

    @goldensleather IMO, I'd be wary of project managing his career/job search. It can very easily slip into a parent/child dynamic and that's a one way ticket to resentment on both your counts.
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