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    Accidental third and torn

    @davidlionheart I strongly suggest having a plan in place for help. We just had our third and we’ve put up more money for babysitters and mother’s helpers. It’s made a big difference. Just having an extra set of hands makes the baby phase doable with 2 other children. My other two are also 4.5...
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    Can’t Lose the Damn Weight - 2 Years Postpartum

    @melissauk I’m so happy for you! How did you find your coach?
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    Can’t Lose the Damn Weight - 2 Years Postpartum

    @melissauk Ooh, I’m interested. Did you fix your metabolism through restricting and tracking? Or did you do it another way?
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    do you tell your pediatrician?

    @tjschaffer I live in the US. I lie every time.
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    Can’t Lose the Damn Weight - 2 Years Postpartum

    @morirach Apologies if this is long - I’m in the same boat! About to tell my whole life story here… After college (and long before kids), I had gained a little weight. I discovered CICO and put myself on a 1200 cal/day diet. I lost 30lbs over 6 months and felt great! Not only that, but I was...
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    He’s asleep before 7…

    @shoemaker My 20 month old is kinda sick, she fell asleep 3 hours earlier than her normal bedtime. Tonight will either be great or a disaster. Pray for me.
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    Announcing Pregnant w 4th

    @colossal No advice, just solidarity. I’m due any day now with baby #3 and people ask “if I’m done yet”. I give an honest answer - “probably but still undecided” - and have gotten a few negative responses to having a 4th. I nod and take it - I give neutral responses like “well, these are all...
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    Income needed for 3 kids

    @morgannicole555 You’ll need a Discount Den membership for the kids fly free on Tuesday/Wednesday deal. Wagons can be checked for free at the gate which makes lugging car seats/kids easier. Personal items (fit on floor under seat) are free but carry on luggage and checked bags you’ll need to pay...
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    Income needed for 3 kids

    @morgannicole555 Frontier is a learning curve, once you know the tricks the flight can be good. I would only take it for flights 3hrs or less, but not for cross-country flights personally
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    Income needed for 3 kids

    @morgannicole555 I’m pregnant with #3, living in HCOL city, making less than you do (~$300k HHI). We also take vacations every year but we budget hard. For example, last December, we flew Frontier on Tuesday/Wednesday because kids fly free on those days. We stayed with family which eliminated...
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    Shall we go from 2 to 3?

    @roguefriar This is one of the reasons why we are considering a 4th lol
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @jojoz Ikr?? One thing I’ve learned about parenting is that so much is outside of our control. Our kids come out wired to be a certain way and we have to navigate accepting their personalities while also trying to shape them into good human beings. Tough balancing act.
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    Age gap between #2 and #3?

    @jojoz The age gap between #2 and #3 will be 2.5 years. Same as you - I had 2 under 2 but adjustment wasn’t super hard because my older child has an independent streak and loves to help. I would’ve waited a bit longer for my third but I’m 35 and was worried about possibly fertility/pregnancy issues.
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    Do you tell your pediatrician you’re bedsharing ?

    @person47 I’ve lied every time and will continue to do so. I don’t like bedsharing, I’d love it if my babies slept in their own cribs/bassinets, but they haven’t and I doubt the next one will. No amount of lecturing will change it so it’s not worth sitting through that again.
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    Toyota Highlander w/ 3 Qs!

    @ognerd Wow, I could have written this! Our third will be born in March and by then, we will have a 4 year old, 2 year old, and a newborn. We are deciding to bite the bullet and buy a 3-row minivan or make it work in our sedan. Also not totally sure if this will be our last kid. What are the...
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    Expenses for 4 v 5 kids?

    @ambereyes12 Is your husband stressed about day to day finances in addition to the big costs?
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