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    Income keeps going up but husband doesn’t want to outsource any chores

    @gembeldolar Have you broken it down for him in terms of dollars? What does he make/hour? That it is what his time is worth. Same goes for you. Now add up what you are spending on chores currently. Bet it’s a lot! If a landscaper and housekeeper charge less per hour than you currently make, and...
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    Is 3 almost easier?

    @morgannicole555 I think we get it in our heads that there is a certain way our family SHOULD be or SHOULD look and that sometimes causes problems with our ability to value what we have. Maybe it’s worth examining what it is about families with three kids that you envy and why. When we were...
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    Is 3 almost easier?

    @morgannicole555 OP it sounds like you’re looking for confirmation of what you want, not actual advice. Resentment regarding An unfulfilled wish is a hell of a lot different than a life-changing decision you’re not totally on board with. “A mother’s dream” is just that. Personal fulfillment is...
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    Is 3 almost easier?

    @morgannicole555 Ha ha no. Not more fun, especially while they’re little. When you go from 2 to 3, you move from man-on-man to zone defense. “More fun” is just not part of the equation if you look at it realistically.
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