@peterh99 Omg yes, I visited a friend in another state for a few days and they have 2 children, age 5 and 9. The chaos, mess, and screaming was intolerable. Each child on their own was great but together it was way too much for me!
@muya As far as YOLO goes, some people say YOLO and have another but I went the opposite way, you only live once so why have another if it would make you miserable? Having another baby would be 18 more years of parenting, made twice as hard by having 2. That's 18 years of my life that I'll never...