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  1. M

    I need a little guidance as my heart is conflicted about sleep training.(sorry, it's a long one)

    @peruss I appreciate your advice. I feel like until the 8 month regression, that was almost what we were doing? I would feed, then place him in his playpen crib in our room and he would sleep, and the first time he woke up to feed, I would nurse him and place him back to sleep independently...
  2. M

    I need a little guidance as my heart is conflicted about sleep training.(sorry, it's a long one)

    @tinywings Oh interesting! Thank you! That's great! Can I ask what age he was when you started this? Did dad give him water in an open cup? (This is how he drinks water now) I find that when he wakes and I'm settling him unless I sent him the breast and rock him for half an hour, he doesn't...
  3. M

    I need a little guidance as my heart is conflicted about sleep training.(sorry, it's a long one)

    @midas Thank you. It's so true, I think they forget a lot. Plus I think our generation does things differently than they did and I think they either get offended or don't understand. And yes I feel like knowing our situation is normal helps a lot with coping.
  4. M

    I need a little guidance as my heart is conflicted about sleep training.(sorry, it's a long one)

    @midas Right. I feel like that's too long to be asleep and alone for a tiny baby 💔. Maybe I'm listening to my mother and MIL too much. They think what's happening is crazy and their kids were all unicorn sleepers apparently. I will checkout your recommendations. Thank you so much!
  5. M

    I need a little guidance as my heart is conflicted about sleep training.(sorry, it's a long one)

    @agbon That's a great idea, thank you! I'll check out the book!
  6. M

    I need a little guidance as my heart is conflicted about sleep training.(sorry, it's a long one)

    @vtac180 Thank you for your insight, this is really helpful to me. I guess I just need to figure out how to get him back into his own bed then into his own room. 😅
  7. M

    I need a little guidance as my heart is conflicted about sleep training.(sorry, it's a long one)

    @sferber Thank you. You're right, it doesn't seem as supportive as they claim, when you can't modify anything about it. I'll check out possum sleep. You're right, it does seem predatory. I try to have him up for at least 3 hours before bedtime. But yes, maybe limiting his second nap length...
  8. M

    I need a little guidance as my heart is conflicted about sleep training.(sorry, it's a long one)

    So here's my situation: FTM to an amazing little boy who will be 9 months on the 11th. Since his 4/5 month sleep regression where he went 7-9 hours sleeping straight without waking, he has been refusing to sleep in his crib (playpen with mattress) and waking up every 1-3 hours in the night. We...
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