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@joshuavargas Man. I just can’t. I think my son right now is too young but while still in utero?! No way… He was excited when I was pregnant but he was so arrogant to all those cliches like “you’ll fall in love when you see that baby” so set to not fit that and he never did. Our son never...

@mac101263 I’m not sure what you read but this has been the DARKEST YEAR OF MY LIFE. I was put on suicide watch last December after the accidental death of my dog. I crawled out of a black hole after losing him. It was April I got back in school full time like. I was doing my best…I was...

@mac101263 Major league

@katrina2017 I seriously appreciate this. I am being told I’m brave and strong and I don’t feel it but every time I’m told that it just makes me walk a little taller and push through. It’s just a shit show.

@katrina2017 It’s unbelievable. I just thought he was grinding, I was grinding and we were slowly improving our life. I understood it was just a season and he burnt it to the ground. I had to CATCH him. He wasn’t going to stop. I saw this loser through so much. Honestly it’s my fault. I was...

@claudiav ❤️ waiting for the ultimate healer of time to help me. Alongside all of you.

@carolyn111 Thank you thank you thank you ❤️❤️❤️

@artoniquenelson Thank you for giving me more words to put behind my feelings. Yes not only was he useless but he just caused so much damage. I don’t have high self esteem but I’m aware that I’m a catch. Waiting for life to hit him hard too…I will be here waiting and watching.

@katrina2017 Any chiming in is welcome

@katrina2017 I need too. I’m in the US. Since I have to process all of this in real time and I can’t just write him off I’m going to need help.

@victorinus I did. I was in the clear. Thankfully so.

@shannonpate6 You sound more like my sister about the situation. It definitely takes TWO.

@shannonpate6 We’re from the same boat. I remember being as young as 10 thinking like why don’t they just get a divorce? My parents finally divorced in my late twenties. “Staying together for the kids” is probably the most unhealthy choice. Thank you for saying that. It helps me keep pushing...

@katrina2017 I would LOVE to be sole parent. He’s okay. Like…I wouldn’t mind them having supervised visits I just don’t trust him for hours on end or overnight. I got overnights pushed back. I guess I’m feeling out the situation… I’m not sure…I don’t think he would psychically hurt him but idk...

@steelebilly I think I’m being overly protective but right I did it by myself and now I have to trust this loser to do it. He isn’t physically abusive but he is an alcoholic so I don’t trust how much he pays attention. He feels like a stranger to me and I don’t know what he will and won’t do. My...

@ntsuab It helps to hear from all of you and know I’m not alone

@ntsuab You right on time. It feels similar to grief. I know these feelings now are part of the process but I know that I will eventually find peace trying to work with and around this asshole as a lover.

@diamondkut I feel like he will lose interest. Right now he is trying to get me back and he understands our son is the common link. However. We was supposed to visit him this weekend and already cancelled and I’m like HELL YEAH, 15 years to go 🥴 No like yeah I want him to fuck off but I don’t...

@katrina2017 Thank you. I just wish I could have made my son all by my fucking self. A good dad loves their mom and now he has disrupted my peace which affects my parenting, my whole life. I don’t want to be hateful but I’m waiting for that karma

@katrina2017 I did. I got everything I could though I was shaking and looking through watery eyes. I filed for divorce. I got child support, overnights post poned since he isn’t bonded to our son and doesn’t know how to raise him. I just want to scream at him and attack him honestly but my life...