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@patona I feel you so much. I was literally shocked at how well my husband must have been sleeping that whole time, not conditioning himself to wake up for the baby. The resentment is so real. I hope you find a good pathway for your family! Kids are so different, but moving him into his own bed...

@patona When he was about 12 months, we would put him into his own bed in his room and then at his first wake-up, I would bring him to our bed. At about 18 months, my husband put a cot in the baby's room and slept next to him. Whenever the baby woke up, my husband would comfort him and get him...

@cubcadetlover I'm so sorry. I agree with the other response that you need some sleep, both for you and your child. I will throw out there that some research suggests that sleep training (even modified CIO) in the context of an otherwise loving and attuned relationship does not seem to cause...

@opinionsareopinions We never sleep trained and at about 18 months, he started sleeping 7-7 in his own bed (we got our first full night at about a year). A year and half later and he's still going strong. Even my bed-sharing skeptical husband is grateful we never made him endure sleep training...