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@jariid I hope you and your mom were able to see eye to eye on your decision eventually. I think parents ultimately wish to see their children happy, regardless if their life choices align with their own hopes/dreams for their kids. I would say work doesn't make me happy per se, but I do...

@lucas3478 Thank you for sharing this. The pull of a child that you just want to focus on is definitely strong. Did anything else help you manage the feelings/thoughts of this transition? Would love to hear other aspects if you would like to share.

@mem5 Thanks so much for validating what I've been feeling and thinking, and giving the rationalization to deal with those concerns. And for the reminder that I have to live my life the way I see fit regardless of what others might think.

@alearose Thank you for taking the time to lay all this out! I really appreciate it! It seems you're excellent at applying things that you've learned to different settings...kudos to you, it's something I need to work on more, but you've given me a good perspective to work with!

@alearose Thanks a lot. I have come across MotherUntitled! I think it didn't resonate that deeply, though, because I recall the author talked about plans to return to work at some point (I may be mistaken). May I ask specifically what aspects of your education you found most helpful toward your...

@pastorjman Thank you for sharing this. I don't think I have the same reassurances as you (financially we aren't that set and I lack the conviction due to lacking people in my social circle who are SAHPs) but your comment was helpful in offering things to consider.

This is a question especially for SAHP who put much time and effort into education (degrees, certifications) and/or building their careers (dedicated years and gained lots of skills and work experience). My husband and I have discussed it at length even before the birth of our child (now 2...