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@fejesusor To each their own. It doesn't work for everyone. I live in the San Francisco area and moving to a LCOL would be a big sacrifice. The financial gain probably wouldn't be worth losing the weather, geography, vibe, amenities, etc.

@duke845 10) How does anyone afford to have kids/more than one? - Some people are wealthy, some people are in major debt or not saving for retirement, some people have free childcare in the form of nearby family, some people are willing to make major sacrifices like no vacations and moving to a...

@middlemind I was also recently told that best parenting hack is to have helpful grandparents nearby; I soooo wish we had that. It’s one of the main reasons I’m not having a second kid. The only people I know with two or more kids have a nearby helpful family or the ability to hire good...

@igrace It starts so young! My 17 mo will make me take my hands off the shopping cart handle and say "no" (his only word) when I'm literally pushing the shopping cart he's sitting in. So I'm supposed to push the shopping cart with... my mind?

@kirag Seriously, how annoying. I figured it out from context but I’ve never seen “FF” as common acronym.

@mikpat I figured they were similar to the Duggars 🤮

@grace93 I’m going to assume they are ultra religious and “leaving it up to god.” And if she dies, it’s “god’s will.” 🙄

@marth4k1ng FWIW, my brother is 7 years older than me and we were never close - too far apart in age to really play together, always at different life stages, and we also just have wildly different values and world views (he's very conservative and religious, I'm a liberal atheist). The age gap...