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    What’s everyone’s twins going for Halloween?

    @maryatexaschristian Mine are at the age where they change their minds ten times before Halloween so I'm waiting to the last minute... hoping we can scrape something together with what we have in hand because it's getting late! Last I heard was witch and skeleton....
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    Feelings you’d have twins..?

    @twinmum No
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    Do I need the bassinet for stroller?

    @cipgiple No you don't need it. I had one that came with my stroller and I didn't get the second one. Walking around my neighborhood was pretty janky so the bassinet never felt secure at all to me for the stroller. We used it around the house as a mobile landing place for a couple weeks but I...
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    Am I wrong?

    @saved1970 Depends on where you're coming from and when this opportunity might come up again. If it's reasonable to think you may get the opportunity to go again then you're not wrong but to say you don't want to take a major trip becuase it's "inconvenient" is a bit of a cop out. It will never...
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    Accidental third and torn

    @davidlionheart Only you can choose. My story is that we were going for nuclear family so we had one, then went to make the sibling and ended up with twins! 1 to 3 was wild but it shifted my entire perspective on my future. We threw the playbook out the window and have since enjoyed our large...
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    Cleaning

    @kamleshchristi I didn't. We had a cleaning person come once a week!
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    Seperation

    @photovid92 I just think it depends on each specific set of twins. I don't believe one way is better or worse inherently. My twins have so far stayed together and love it but also are super independent children both as twins but also in general as individuals
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    Breastfeeding/bottle feeding twins?

    @drterrapin My twins were fed every which way but I also had success nursing them. Nicu will absolutely take expressed milk and if your twins are able to nurse they will definitely let you promote that. Mine were too fragile and weak to nurse (and small) and had to be tube fed but once they...
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    I’m 4.5 months in and it’s still hard.

    @grace4us You're truly in the thick of it but I promise it does get better. But "soon" is a relative term. I was very distressed for 6 months and still under plenty of stress but slightly more manageable distress for another 6 months. For my situation after year one was through I felt like I was...
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    Just bought my first baby item x2

    @phillip24 Congrats! Just don't be me and forget to give double the Valentine's treats to the preschool class when the time comes! Haha I remembered two days before after feeling so on top of everything making these cute little party favors ahead of time-- AHH I HAVE TO MAKE A SECOND (different)...
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    Tips for cleanup after eating that isn’t a dog

    @faye58 I see you got the ikea high chair which is a huge win (trust, I've tried a couple and it's truly the best) Love the idea of a mat under the high chair, tarp, etc. Until they have a better grasp (literally) on eating I would feed my babies in their diapers so I could just go straight...
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    How to wean off night feedings (with preemies)

    @judimma When my twins had bulked up enough for us and the dr to feel comfortable dropping night feeds the first thing I did was stop waking the second baby up if the one woke in the night. I'd see if they would stay asleep. This got us to longer stretches of night sleep for a few weeks--longer...
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    Even More Unsolicited Perspective - There is Hope!

    @mndad2 You're on a roll and not wrong! Mine didn't smile until 6 months plus (super preemie) and basically were lumps of crying crying needy needy neediness and I loved them but definitely did not love the phase. It is completely traumatizing under the best circumstances and I had pretty bad...
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    Sharing a crib

    @smaxiner Mine would not share a crib. It isn't exactly advised for safety reasons but even so one of my twins was very irritable if I ever did try to even nap them together and would fight until they had their own space and then immediately relax. (This child also didn't like rocking, excessive...
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    Update: The message I sent my therapist. This was hard for me to do, but thank y'all for giving me the courage. ♥️

    @djseb Great message! Succinct but gets the point across and even cordial. Proud of you and hope getting it off your chest helps you!
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    Even More Unsolicited Perspective - There is Hope!

    @daiphucka It gets better. You're in the thick of it!!!
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