@gembeldolar Float it as a trial. Say you are going to try a cleaner for 3 months and then the two of you can come back together and reassess if it's worth it.
@semiprecious I remember you! You're nothing short of amazing for taking in your niece and nephew while you're pregnant. Honestly, I would have said something back. It's one thing for people to silently judge you based on incorrect assumptions; it's another thing to open up your mouth and spout...
@childofgod777777 Our daycares provided us a summary of diapers changed, ounces consumed, and naps. It was still pretty lean on other details, but I think it's not unreasonable to expect a summary.