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@vhialemon I fear this too :/

@bert54 I love that lol

@des72001at Yeah, I agree that we need to be on the same page but I noticed his priorities are the opposite of mine and he’s a stubborn person in general so it’s hard. We tell each other what we think but that’s about it, we stop talking before getting upset/arguing because he knows I don’t want...

@nfrazer1 Yeah, he hasn’t bonded yet and I’m sympathetic with that since he doesn’t feel her 24/7 like I do. I don’t think it feels “real” to him but I’m hoping it’ll start to once I’m 8 months. My whole pregnancy he didn’t quite get how hard/tiring it’s been for me and we had to have a couple...

@starshinesunshine Man we’re in california too 😫

@jnnfrb LMFAO

@barbaraomalley I agree, but he insists that we both need to make a lot of money and save for her future. We already have a good amount of savings which is why I believe it’s fine to take a break too. I feel it’s more important to bond with her while she’s still a baby than to make a couple...

@butforgrace I feel the same way

@abner2011 This was really heartwarming, I totally agree that family’s more important than money

@thebaconincident Dang all the moms I know reallyyy fear daycares/nannies/babysitters/etc so it’s new for me to hear how normalized it is to others. Maybe it’s the area or personal experience but I don’t know anyone that trusts them like that. One thing is we’d only feel comfortable enough to...

@moongurl Awwww that’s so sweet, I’m happy for you guys 🥺

@otoolie Definitely, when the time comes I think it’ll be much easier for him to empathize and want to be present. I’ll ask him to keep an open mind for now in case I need help. I’m sure he’d prefer letting his job know ahead of time but I don’t think he’ll ask for time off until he...

@otoolie Yeah, I think that’s his mindset too. We’ve been having multiple safety nets but he doesn’t think it makes sense to miss out on any money. He would get 80% of his pay if he takes leave. I’ll still be helping with half the rent and paying for the groceries, budget wise we are good. He...

My s/o can get paid leave but he doesn’t want to take time off just because it’s not full pay. I don’t think he understands how hard it will be for me right after giving birth and he always talks like I can handle everything —like even telling me to go back to work after 3 months lol. There...